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Minister to couples: Sex everyday! A southwest Florida church
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02-19-08
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Fire that preacher!!!!!!! He has, as the saying goes, stopped preaching and started meddling.
How absurd! Having sex everyday is not the way to prevent divorce! What if the sex every day is bad sex? Then what? Preaching such a program is saying that sex solves the problems of divorce. It does not, and never will. Couples should focus on the emotional needs, physical needs,intellectual needs and spiritual needs of each other rather than the sexual needs. If the first four needs are met, the sexual need will be met assuming, of course, that a couple is physically capable of having sex.
The way for our society to lower the divorce rate is to teach young people especially young women that there is no Knight in shinging armor, there is no rescue heroes, there is no handsome hunk, and there is no "falling in love" that is going to keep two people together in a bad marriage.
We must teach our young people to get an education, trade or skill to support themselves,to be self respecting and independent, so they don't become economically dependent on the spouse, don't look to the spouse for happiness, and don't depend on the spouse for self esteem.
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You're crazy. Maybe you're afraid of sex.
My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years, and probably have sex twice or three times a month - mostly because we're too busy, too tired or something else prevents it.
We look at this as a challenge and can't wait to do it. I have already conceded that if we're really going to do it for 30 days straight that some of them will need to be quickies in the shower or bathroom, and that by definition I'll have my period for some of them, but that just means we'll put a towel down and get over it. We love each other and want to prove to ourselves that we can do it. Plus we really look forward to 30 days of orgasms - how can you not be in a good mood!
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